Best Things a Father Can Do

My goal is post at least once each week, and technically my last post was on Saturday. I already know I won't time time the rest of this week to post, so here's a quick thought from Elder Christofferson's talk from the last General Conference.

This video quote sums it up beautifully: "Loving the mother of his children - and showing that love - are two of the best things a father can do for his children."

I have felt the truth of this statement many times. First, a loved mother is a happier mother. When Sadie feels appreciated and loved, she is better enabled in her divine role as a nurturer. She has a special ability to love and teach in a way that I can't, so I try my best to remove any obstacles that prevent her from doing that. I see one of my roles as a father as filling the emotional gas tank of the mother of my children.

Another truth I have found is that children feel more secure and loved when they see love being shown. Sadie has taught me a ton about this. I didn't think of myself as a real "huggy" person before we got married, but I'm learning how important it is (and I'm enjoying it!). The kids love "sandwich hugs." When they see mom and dad hugging, they run over and squeeze in between us to make a sandwich.

Taking care of a garden is a lot more than just watering the plants. Preparing the soil and keeping the weeds out is just as import to help the plants grow strong and healthy. To be the best dad for my children, I need to focus on their mother.